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#1 Journey, Jokes, & Storytelling

3/17/2022

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It’s working.

With the outpouring of prayers and support, I asked for jokes – and I’m getting the best ever.
        
And it’s true: laughter is a strong medicine. I feel better when I’ve read the jokes. So keep them coming.

I just learned that according to research laughter draws people together in ways that trigger healthy physical and emotional changes in the body. It strengthens our immune system, boosts mood, and diminishes pain.  All the things I need right now.
        
But best of all it also helps you release anger and forgive sooner – that convinces me to more than to share and promote jokes.
        
I want to share with you - some of the jokes that have come to me

"What do you call it when a snowman throws a tantrum?" "A meltdown."

"How do you make a tissue dance? You put a little boogie in it."
 
"When two vegans get in an argument, is it still called a beef?"
        
Love those jokes.
        
I’m learning in a new way that story telling is also good for us.
         
Listen to this.

​Telling your story—while being witnessed with loving attention by others who care—may be the most powerful medicine on earth.

This is the research. Every time you tell your story and someone else who cares bears witness to it, you turn off the body’s stress responses, “flipping off toxic stress hormones like cortisol and epinephrine and flipping on relaxation responses that release healing hormones like oxytocin dopamine, nitric oxide, and endorphins.

Not only does this turn on the body’s innate self-repair mechanisms and function as preventative medicine—or treatment if you’re sick. It also relaxes your nervous system and helps heal your mind of depression, anxiety, fear, anger, and feelings of disconnection.

I’m not sure what that all means, but it sounds really good!
My bedside nurse is now insisting that I blog out my story to you.
I know it’s not ready for public consumption yet – unedited etc. but I’m going to do it anyway.

You can actually help. I am open to suggestions, and definitely fact checking….

I will also include at the end of each story a few reflections that diarize my journey through this new challenge of the dark night of the soul, the body, the heart and the mind.

And then to lighten things up I will include a joke. – why not?
 
Thank you for journeying and “joking” with me.
"Laugh as much as possible, always laugh.
It's the sweetest thing one can do for
​oneself & one's fellow human beings.
"
–Maya Angelou
4 Comments
Lee K
3/17/2022 12:40:52 pm

It is always good to laugh and I thank you for sharing those. Here’s a few more hopefully for a smile or two 😁

Why don’t pirates take a shower before they walk the plank?

They just wash up on shore.

In Denver, the members of a Sunday­-school class were asked to set down their favorite biblical truths. One youngster laboriously printed: “Do one to others as others do one to you.

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Walt Derksen
3/17/2022 03:34:08 pm

here's a couple
The first time I got a universal remote control, I thought to myself, ‘This changes everything.’

I put my grandma on speed dial the other day. I call it insta-gram.

Did you hear about the guy whose whole left side got amputated? He’s all right now.

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Lovella (Derksen) Soles
3/30/2022 12:55:00 am

Here's a joke I find hilarious, although not many seem to share my opinion.😊 What do you think?

"What's orange and lies in a ditch?"
"A wounded cheesie!"

Just typing this is making me laugh!

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Richard Hyslop
4/2/2022 04:48:27 pm

On Friday, April 15th of 2016, almost six years ago now, the most respected psychiatrist in Moncton (New Brunswick), Dr. Jerome Doucet, told me I was crazy and involuntarily committed me to the psychiatric ward of my local hospital. The psychiatrist was correct in his diagnosis. On September 2nd that same year, I met a 91 year old man, who told me he was one of only five remaining Canadian paratroopers from World War Two. A calm likeable man who talked openly about his wartime experience. Listening to him prompted me to talk to him about my late beloved maternal grandfather, a machine gunner in Korea in 1951, when he was only 19 years old, the same age as me when I first met Cliff Derksen. I talked about watching CNN with my grandfather in 2005, while he was dying from cancer. CNN was covering the war in Afghanistan, where we first coined the psydyomn PTSD, which now needs no explanation. That day, for the first time ever, my my beloved maternal grandfather told me, a 40 year old man, the story of being 19 and having his 19 year old buddy sawed in half from the machine gun fire of the "enemy." I said to my new 91 year old friend that I now realize my maternal grandfather suffered from PTSD all his life. To my shock, the 91 year old man told me an active duty army psychologist diagnosed him as suffering from PTSD just five years earlier, 65 years after the conclusion of the war, at a time when anger completely consumed him. Knowing only a calm likeable man, I was shocked. When I asked the old man how the psychologist had "miraculously" transformed an 85 year old man, he replied that the psychologist told him whenever anyone asked him about his wartime experiences, instead of refusing to talk about it, he should talk openly, calmly, matter of fact, in appropriate language. Now, after making someone listen to me, I always say: "Thank you, you just saved me a trip to a therapist and 100$." That last line inevitably gets a laugh out of my audience, which puts a smile on my face as I walk away from them.

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